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In 1999 I was presented with a simple business opportunity in the UK, where I was working then. I was working long hours for one company in order to pay most of my bills. And I was working weekends for another company in order to pay the rest of my bills. On top of this, I was training as a complementary therapist in order at the very least to replace the part-time job and earn more per hour. This was so I could afford to take a day off each week. But, even though I was desperate, I ignored this business opportunity. Why? Because I thought that it had to be really complicated. I thought I would have to have capital to do it. I thought it would be expensive and take long to set up. After all, logically, if it is that good, surely it would take a lot of time and money to set up.
I kept training and took very good courses in complementary therapy. And still, in 2002, when I finally graduated with very worthy diplomas, I was still really struggling to succeed in my own part-time business.
In 2003, I sold everything I had – even my home - and went into business for myself full-time. I was spending more money than I was earning and any money I had was fast disappearing. Life was hard.
And in 2003, this same business opportunity came up again. I was taught Indian Head Massage and asked to take it up as part of my new career. I was told it would net me at least R5000 working 2 days a month EASY, and that I could take it further if I wanted. Again, I ignored this opportunity. As a matter of fact, I decided not to practice Indian Head Massage at all. Why? Because it was taught in half a day. That is why. I was ashamed of it. I thought surely it cannot be good; surely it cannot be safe; surely nobody would respect me anymore if I did it. After all, I had studied for years for my other therapies. I had paid many thousands for my other skills. I had slaved over a thesis, countless case studies, and passed several exams. How could an Indian Head Massage certificate earned in half a day be any good?
So I chose to completely ignore this business opportunity. Yet again.
Later on, still in the UK, I was working in a few clinics, business was gradually getting better, but still not where it needed to be. It was then that I started contacting corporates about my therapies for their staff. Imagine my shock when most of them said “No thank you, we have a lovely person who comes and does Indian Head Massage for us”! Even when I thought they were not “qualified enough” or “good enough”. I even approached government bodies for my therapies for their staff, and even they said “No thank you, we have someone doing Indian Head Massage”!
For a while, I even campaigned to try and stop what I perceived was this great wrong - a massage course in half a day!
Finally, business started getting better, and I opened the first clinic in the UK that was entirely my own. I had several therapists working with me in my clinic, and then I found out. That those that had Indian Head Massage in their repertoire did the best. They brought in good money. They earned well.
To publicize my clinic, I went to corporate networking events. There I met several successful business people. They made excellent money, selling Indian Head Massage services to large corporations, at exhibitions, and events. Even government departments. And all this after just a half-day training! Finally, my eyes were opened, and I heard the message loud and clear.
And another thing happened. My own daughter got the same opportunity to do Indian Head Massage. She took a half-day course and started making money with it immediately. She is a shrewd investor, with investments in property, as well as worthwhile diplomas in therapeutic techniques. And she still chooses to use her half-day Indian Head Massage course as an important part of her full-time successful business. Then I finally got it. It finally sunk in. I completely changed my mind about Indian Head Massage.
Indian Head Massage is now the most popular corporate and personal stress-relief in the whole of the UK.
I now totally love Indian Head Massage and, having migrated for love and marriage, am delighted to bring it to you in South Africa. I find it enormously satisfying, and I want to teach you everything I have learned about it!
How can this benefit you?
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A phobia can be a source of terror, amusement, and embarrassment. Sometimes all three at once, even to the phobic themselves.
Phobias range from the ridiculous to the downright dangerous. At the lighter end of the scale, there is the fear of bananas. And we all know someone who travels across land and sea for miles and kilometres rather than get on a short plane ride. However, it must be nerve-wracking to check inside your cornflake packet every morning just in case there is a spider inside. Or to be gripped with terror every time the cat brings a mouse in. For some, the cat itself is an object of terror. On the other end of the scale, we have the fear of swallowing, which naturally can have serious consequences.
Most phobics either find a way to cope or find treatment. Maybe you have been for phobia treatment with little or no headway. Or perhaps you or yours would like to be assured of a better result from the word go. With this in mind, here are the five commonly overlooked drivers of a phobia.
1.Questioning the ability of being free from this fear. This has more to do with the next three reasons than it has to do with capability.
2.Feeling that it is your role in life to carry some discomfort. For example, the unconscious mind may be thinking “this is the cross I have to bear in life” or “my mother always shouted at my sister and was good to me, so I have to carry some other pain”.
3.Feeling that it is unsafe to let go of this fear. The unconscious mind may be saying “if I let go of this fear, what will I have to face?” This is when the phobia is a symptom of something much deeper.
4.Feeling that one is not worthy of being free from this fear. The conscious mind may wish to be free from the fear. The unconscious mind may be saying things like “I wasn’t worthy of my mother’s love” or “my father abandoned us, so I wasn’t worthy of him staying” or even “I was abused because I was bad.”
5.Strangely enough, for some, a phobia provides a stimulation and an interest. And so, some phobics are in a way addicted to the fear.
Whilst these are on the heavier side of healing stubborn phobias, they point the way to the solution. Once we know what the problem is, then we can start solving it. There are many treatments for phobia, with varying degrees of success. As a complementary therapist, I used to deal with phobia with hypnotherapy. Now this is OK for a small and simple phobia. And I respect your experience if you have found peace through hypnosis. However, it has been my experience that a more complex phobia needs an energy therapy element to help dislodge it. EFT is great at removing phobias. If you do not like EFT, then Reiki or an energy healing meditation can be a great help. And whatever path you take to freedom, I wish you healing and peace.
© Suzanne Zacharia 2008. My name is Suzanne Zacharia and I am committed to spreading the word about health options. I believe that the more and better options one has, the more choice there is.
A virus caught along with 5 other students at university at the end of 1986, plus medical negligence, meant that I got smokers lung at a relatively young age. In desperation for help with my symptoms and quality of life, I turned to complementary therapy, and I have outlived one doctor’s prognosis by over 12 years now.
I am now a complementary therapist, author and trainer specializing in “energy psychology”. Want to use this article? You can, as long as you credit me with it and invite your readers to get my FREE EFT and energy psychology ebook “7 Real Truths of Energy Psychology” at http://www.newagetherapies.com
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A phobia is an over-the-top fear of a particular thing and is the most common form of what is called an anxiety disorder. Faced with the object of fear, the phobic experiences feelings ranging from mild fear to absolute terror. A pounding heart, wet palms, shaking arms, wobbly legs, and nausea are but a few of the feelings reported.
Naturally, a phobic would like to be rid of the phobia as soon as possible. Treatments include CBT, hypnotherapy, NLP, and EFT.
More and more evidence is now pointing to EFT as the best way to be free from a phobia. And through my fellow EFT practitioners, I was introduced the the marvelous concept of the Law of Attraction. In a nutshell, it says that we manifest what we think. So if we are thinking of fear, we feel fear. The Law of Attraction makes a great deal of sense and seems to be one of the most sensible ideas in self-growth and personal development.
If you or someone you care about are struggling to shake off a phobia, from the wisdom of the Law of Attraction, here are the 7 top reasons why. And when you know why, you have key to the way forward.
1. Facing your fear by force. Fear is a negative thing, and facing it by force reinforces the negative, every time it is faced.
2. Ignoring your fear. By ignoring the fear, again, what is on your mind? Fear.
3. Fearing the fear. This time, we have not one, but two fears on our minds; a double-whammy.
4. Unrelated fears from the past locked away in the energy system of your body. By having these perhaps long-forgotten fears in your body, your mind manifests the fears as a phobia.
5. Thinking of the object of fear instead of feeling the beauty of the situation. For example a mouse-phobic considers foremost the feared aspects rather than how the mouse is friendly and cute.
6. Identifying as the person who reacts with this fear. Our identity is a strongly-held concept, and thinking that you are the person with the phobia keeps you as the person with the phobia.
7. A common bond with loved ones who also have this fear. If a bond with a loved one is thought to be the phobia, then this thought will continue to manifest the phobia.
OK, so that is the why. Now you just need the how. All of the above can be used with whatever treatment you or yours choose. You can write down a list of situations or feelings that the 7 reasons bring up for you. Then you can just hand these to your chosen practitioner or simply use them as a basis for EFT on yourself. If EFT is new to you, you can get the EFT Manual free of charge from the website of its founder Gary Craig. And whatever path you take to freedom, I wish you healing and peace.
© Suzanne Zacharia 2008. My name is Suzanne Zacharia and I am committed to spreading the word about health options. I believe that the more and better options one has, the more choice there is.
A virus caught along with 5 other students at university at the end of 1986, plus medical negligence, meant that I got smokers lung at a relatively young age. In desperation for help with my symptoms and quality of life, I turned to complementary therapy, and I have outlived one doctor’s prognosis by over 12 years now.
I am now a complementary therapist, author and trainer specializing in “energy psychology”. Want to use this article? You can, as long as you credit me with it and invite your readers to get my FREE EFT and energy psychology ebook “7 Real Truths of Energy Psychology” at http://www.newagetherapies.com
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I saw this on Healthy Pages news online. And I thought it makes a lot of sense.
Almost every day in my work, I help people with physical manifestations of buried emotions and addictions to cope with buried emotions. So it now makes perfect sense to me that happiness levels stay the same. We are designed, or have evolved, to adapt to the conditions of our lives. And so we unconsciously find ways to adapt and keep our happiness levels the same.
The report does point out that long-term unemployment was an exception to the rule. In other words, people who are long-term unemployed are generally less happy than those in regular employment. I don’t think this means that happiness depends on having a job. Of course, if you don’t have enough money to eat and feed your family, that is a recipe for unhappiness for sure. However, anyone whose physical or mental health means they cannot work is usually unhappy too.
So basically, my conclusion is that if you have enough money coming in and are in reasonable mental and physical health, you can always find a way to be happy.
Warm regards,
Suzanne Zacharia
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We have a new branch in Cape Town, South Africa, offering self-help, professional training, and one-to-one treatments. We also have new classes over the telephone for self-development and self-help. We would like you to experience our offering free of charge, so that you can recommend us to your friends when they need our services. With this in mind, I hope you enjoy my 5-day online course with my compliments.
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Suzanne Zacharia
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Hi Everyone,
Those “doing battle with the scale” will appreciate this article by Helen Bressler. It illustrates the oh-so-true fact that slimming down almost always requires the resolution of anxiety producing emotions. Without this vital step, the anxiety begs for tranquilization and food is often the “drug of choice.”
Hugs, Gary
By Helen P Bressler (Rev, Dip CH)
Mary (name changed for confidentiality) came to me with her problem of carrying extra weight. She had been overweight since childhood and just could not find an answer to losing weight nor the motivation or mindset to curb her negative behavior around food. Although her diet was rich in simple carbohydrates, protein and vegetables, it also included a large amount of ‘take out’ and processed foods as well as high sugar, high fat snacks. Mary was approaching 50 and carried 230 pounds on her 5 foot 4 inch frame.
Mary felt generally ‘fed up’ and had tried diets and increasing exercise over the years. She already walked 4 miles a day to and from work, and had been doing so for the past few years but nothing she attempted was sustained for more than a couple of weeks, except her walk to and from work.
When prompted to look more deeply at her feelings around her weight, Mary said the weight gain began with the death of her mother when she (Mary) was just 6 years old. Gently probing this scenario further we discovered that Mary had not felt abandoned, angry or ‘undernourished’, as I admit I had expected, but had been left feeling anxious after her mother’s passing.
We addressed the anxiety by first muscle testing to ascertain psychological reversal; Subconsciously, Mary actually wanted to retain her weight. On discovering this and being reassured that reversal was quite normal and experienced by nearly half of the population, Mary was open to first tapping to address her implicit wish to keep the weight. The setup used the sore spot, Even though I want to keep my extra weight, I deeply and completely accept and forgive myself’. After the setup, we tapped, Wanting to keep my weight’ and ‘not wanting to lose weight, alternatively on the EFT points.
I then asked Mary to evaluate the level of anxiety on a scale of 0-10 to which she replied 10. We explored various wording for the setup and settled on, Even though I am still anxious after my mother’s death… After three rounds Mary’s feeling anxious had dropped to a 4 out of 10 and she was able to speak more openly about her mother and her mother’s death without the charged emotion she had felt for almost 44 years. Eager to take the setup and tapping home, I asked her to go through the setup and tapping once each evening for a period of 4 weeks.
Our follow-up appointment fell almost 5 weeks after our first session and began with an elated Mary entering the room. She had lost 14 pounds in less than 5 weeks and exclaimed excitedly that her whole attitude toward food had changed. She continued to tap each evening before bed, as she felt motivated and reassured by doing so. She also explained that she felt free of the charge surrounding her mother’s death and that she was finally felt she was doing something for herself (taking charge of her eating habits and losing the excess weight) without feeling anxious about it.
Apparently since her mother died, every action was accompanied by a feeling of anxiousness. I considered probing the anxiousness further and asked Mary if any accompanying emotions were present either at the time of the death or since. As Mary was sincere in her inability to find any other emotion attached to or underlying the anxiety I decided not to ask what may have been leading questions.
Mary continues to tap, to lose weight in a healthy, gradual manner and is eating a balanced diet without the processed snacking that had maintained her overweight. She states that she is experiencing life in a freer manner and has deeper emotional connections with her children and husband.
The benefits that I greatly appreciate about EFT are the ancillary side effects, such as the more intimate relationships experienced by Mary, as well as the simplicity which makes this so easily accessible.
With love,
Helen P Bressler (Rev, Dip CH).
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